What life really means if there is no improvement in ourselves?. It’s not just about materialistic of having a new car or smart phone, but much more important is our inner self, our interaction with other people and how do we perceive our lives.
Let’s have a look few things that I acquired since few months ago. These points become so much important to me recently.
1) Surrounded by good people
I just realized that throughout my life, I’ve surrounded by good people. Unfortunately, I always complained about my life and this attitude had blind my heart to see those good people. As I started to be more grateful with what Allah has bestowed upon, then I realized how lucky myself to surrounded by good people, since I was kid till now.
Be grateful with what you have and good life will come along it.
2) Think positive of everything
I still remember reading someone blog. The writer said, ” my lecturer said, if we want to succeed, we have also to think negative about people around us”.
I don’t know whether the above theory really work or not. But if you go through the life of successful people, you will know how did they went through it. They moving forward with positive thinking about other and everything that happened to them.
Your positive mind and thinking will generate positive energy in your life.
3) Love everyone
The word ‘love’ always to be associate with loving couple, boyfriend & girlfriend, pakwe & makwe. What people don’t realize that love have many branches; love to your parents, siblings, colleagues etc. If you can said love to you boyfriend/girlfriend, why don’t you used the same word to others. I started to use this word to my surrounded people to show how important they to me(but in funny way/joke) and believe it or not, it’s can enhance your relationship with those people.
4) Take criticism likely
Criticism might hurt you, either it be delivered politely and harshly by people. People critics you for reasons. Take positive approach will reduce of hurt feeling to yourself. Think this way: people critics you because they seen not good thing on you and want you to change that. They want you to improve and become a better person because they love you. By taking approach, you are less likely to get long-hurt feeling and will boost you to change or improve yourself based on that criticism.
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salam…
bestnya bgtu..bila tgok pic tu rasa saya nk bt bgtu …rasa bahgia tenang seketika…
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amuslimhouse.com Reply:
April 23rd, 2012 at 12:07 am
wsalam suri, dalam hidup, kita memang kena cari ketenangan. memang kadang2 agak susah especially bila musibah datang, tapi kena tetap berfikiran positif..
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point yang last tue penting.. biasanye telinga kite nie sensitif, pantang orang kritik sket kita nak marah balik orang tue, tapi bile kita berfikiran positif (point ke-2), senanye orang tue marah sebab nak perbetulkan kita..
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amuslimhouse.com Reply:
April 23rd, 2012 at 12:10 am
yup, betul, walaupun mungkin ada orang yg nak marahkan kita sebab nak malukan kita atau sebab perkara2 lain yg tak baik, we still to think otherwise, positive. so,we are not get hurt much..^_^..
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Kata-kata yang kena think negative tu saya tak gemarla pulak.Think negative tu maksudnya bersangka buruk?
Tapi Think positive tu saya setuju,selalu dengar Prof.Dr.Muhaya kat IKIM selalu cakap,minda postitif.Jangan pikir negative.Bila kita lihat,fikir yang positif,kita tak terfikir pun akan perkara negatif..Dia bagi contoh mata,katakan mata kiri sakit,tapi mata kanan masih elok,jadi bersyukurlah pada mata yang masih eloktu.Jangan asyik memikirkan mata yang sakit..minda cuba cari perkara yang baik..Indahnya jika fikiran sentiasa positif.Semoga kita berusaha ke arah itu,InsyaAllah..
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amuslimhouse.com Reply:
May 9th, 2012 at 2:18 am
Apa yang dimaksudkan think positive adalah dalam keadaan yg sewajarnya, macam yang anda sebutkan.Janganlah pula kalau orang nak masuk rumah mencuri pun masih fikir positif, itu lain ceritanya..hahaha..nak selalu think positive kena banyak praktis.. bila rasa nak fikir negatif, cepat-cepat tukar minda untuk fikir positif. minda perlu dilatih. Itu yg cuba saya amalkan..Yang penting juga, pastikan pemikiran positif kita tu drive kita kehadapan.
hanya sekadar pendapat saya sajalah….^_^…
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