Dates always play important role in our lives. After all, it’s represent the passing of time and the milestones in its own way.
Yes, the milestones!!!
Just look at yourself. How far you have move till now. Stand in front of mirror and compare to your pictures when you were young, at school, university or at the time you are still single. Of course, you physical appearance had changed, maybe look like Hollywood actor in your favorite movies or if you are girl you might look like Aishwarya Rai with her beautiful eyes and hair. Whatever your physical appearance, that not really you have to bother, rather than the other changes that you have go through, financial, emotional, mental as well as maturity that you’ve acquired through your life experiences.
Because of that, we always celebrate the important dates such as achievement, birthday, wedding anniversary, new year, Aidilfitri, Thaipusam, Mother’s day, Father’s day and any other date that signify it’s important to our life. In fact, Malaysia is amongst the countries that have many public holidays, no wonder due to the fact that it’s comprises many races and every race festival should be celebrate.
Most of people regardless of race and religion looking forward a New Year to effect of personal change, due to the fact New Year is always be consider as stating point of new things. New year is the chance to left all the bad memories and start new year with fresh life. People started to think what they want in next year, anxiously come up with plan to make their dream come true. The spirit is booming though the road in next year might have same obstacles as this year.
Anyway, this the rights approach of life. We have to move to be a better person. But the change is not easy as going to Dataran Merdeka and celebrates for the coming New Year with the hope of the coming year will be more preposterous year. The fact is nothing will change overnight. You wake up in 1st January 2012 and perhaps carry same problems as you have in 31 December 2011. You still have to face the same boss, colleagues and others people around. Nothing will change overnight. If that so, why we have to much bother of a new year?
But just try to look at this way. Any day is a good day to change our life without having to wait a meaningful date to come. If that the way we life, then we could just wasting our time. At any time you realizes that something wrong with your life, take action to change. Do not wait until a certain time.
The fact is how many people consistently have spirit till end of year to work for the thing they dreams in the beginning of New Year?.
The fact is most people are stumble in the middle of year or loss concentrate to make dream into reality when a challenge comes?.
The fact is nothing will change by themselves. You can’t just simply sit and doing nothing about them, simply because it’s all depend on our free will. Change is start with realization that something has to change or to do, then depth analysis of the situation and the action need to be take to achieve the resolutions. It’s also with realization that it’s going to be hard and long journey. Like other journey, it will lead you somewhere as long as you have your destination right even the first step might be slow and tough, and of course as long as you never give up.
Remember, every day is a special in its unique way. And we are the one who going to make it whether we want to make it great and let that day flow through without left any mark or memories. The fact that you wake this morning is cause celebration in itself. You still can breath air, seen you loving one and have a chance to prepare yourself for next life. That’s already a good enough to treasure every single day and to appreciate every single breath. That’s why we should be doing as much as we can, as long as we can and as far as we can.
So, let’s celebrate each and every new day as there is no tomorrow.
Coz who’s know, if tomorrow might never come….
“Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn’t arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I’m going to be happy in it.” ~ Groucho Marx
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